Monday, April 4, 2016

Chapter one- revisited



1.      Raise the Bar
“Expect a lot from yourself or no one else will.”

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hen people are confronted with expectations of themselves, they can reflect about what their lives can bring to the world if they reach their full potential. At my age, the learning process still occurs through events, people, research, and fun. I never expected to be a middle school principal. The prospect of being an educator for thirty years let alone a principal in the same school for seventeen years would have been a ridiculous thought when my career started. To quote a song written by Robert Hunter, “What a long, strange trip it’s been.”  Fortunately, that “Ta Da” moment still appears but I’m sure this will not be my last stop.
            An integral part of “raising the bar” includes knowing your strengths and weaknesses. By working together with other stakeholders, strengths eliminate weaknesses and allow a higher level of achievement.  By knowing our assets and not ignoring our flaws, we keep becoming trail blazers and innovators. Most of all, the students and staffulty at our school are able to astound each other when we encourage each other to take calculated, creative risks. Our success has been measured in multiple formats: publications, research, awards and most of all the creation of whole people that reach heights beyond their wildest imaginations.
For me, “Raising the Bar” is the prelude to all the great things that leaders do. Granted, everything you do is not off the charts, but your goal should be to create the best. In Jim Collins book, Good to Great, he suggests that good is the enemy of great. If you are an educator, you see it all the time. Teachers, parents, and students sometimes do “just enough”. Well, that should never be a part of your organization and surely not in our building. In schools, we are dealing with our world’s most valuable resource, our future. In your house, you are dealing with the success of the people around you which translates into the success of your mission.
“Excellence will not attack your school.” -Larry Biddle
By raising the bar for yourself, you raise the bar for everyone. Then they raise the bar for the people around them, and so on and so on. It carries over into everything you do. High standards are catchy. Work hard, be successful, have fun.
Most people have high expectations for themselves but they do not believe in themselves. Children, adolescents, teenagers, and young adults will automatically raise the bar when they know you believe in them thereby allowing them to believe in themselves. When you are connected, no one wants to disappoint one another. This creates a tremendous amount of opportunity to complete research and fine-tune the quality of our educational process and the creation of positive climate and culture.
One of the most noticeable differences between the first and second editions of this book is the different stories that have accumulated over time. The following letter (email) was written by someone who lived the 50 Great Things as it was being written. One of the most influential and touching stories about my career follows. This girl continues to raise the bar that started at a very early age. She was ten when I first met her. This letter is usually saved for the end of a presentation or keynote but it is the powerful beginning to the many new stories that occur when people work together.
Dr. R.,
It’s hard to believe that in just a few weeks I’ll be a college graduate.  These final weeks at Queens are filled with sentimental time of reflection and celebration.   For me, part of that reflection piece is passing on words of gratitude. 
Today was a beautiful day on our campus to celebrate learning with the scholarship donors who generously give to our university.  As these donors talk about why they’ve chosen to make an investment in our education, I couldn’t help but think of the investment you’ve made in my education.  It’s so neat that you’ve cared enough to watch me grow through college graduation!
At Queens our focus is living a noble life through community and character.  It’s our job to look at the world, as it “ought to be.”  I’d like to think I came to college with a basic understanding of what that meant.  It all started with you! Character traits and leadership began in those fifth grade leadership lessons.  When I share with professors, peers, and family about why I’ve been able to thrive here at Queens, It often begins with the phrase I had a middle school principal who encouraged me to write goals….  My middle school years are such a critical part of my story.
There are the moments when it gets difficult to sit in education classes knowing that the road to being a teacher has been anything but easy because my peers will be teachers sooner than me.   And then there’s moments like today’s class where we talk about classroom climate and school culture and my thoughts immediately turn to Belhaven!   Or the moment a few weeks ago when a group of students was sharing their experience about visiting the Ron Clark Academy and I told a friend that rather than going to visit that school they should go hear you speak about Belhaven…. It’s that brilliant!
 I leave Queens with a compassionate heart to serve the students in our city who need someone to believe they have a chance to succeed.   You’ve given me a tremendous amount of hope and inspiration.  It’s time for me to give that to other young people. You’ve made me a visionary!  Being an educator is still the passion that sits in my heart and it’s going to take us more time to accomplish that goal.   I haven’t given up! My bigger dream though is to serve young people.  So maybe I’ll work with a non- profit.   I’ve given deeper thought to why I want to teach and molding people of good character is a huge piece of that….  So, I wonder what it would be like to get a job promoting character education programs like Renaissance in more of our public schools.
    Anyway, here’s what I’ve learned in my time as a student… If Dr.  R. says he believes in you, he meant it and nearly anything is possible!  WE did it!!

 With Gratitude,
Julie 

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