Monday, July 7, 2014

Update- Things to Tell Your Son or Daughter Before They Go to College



Things to Tell Your Son or Daughter Before They Go to College
1.    Expect a lot from yourself or no one else will.

2.    Your happiness or unhappiness depends on you. Never let your happiness depend on someone else.

3.    Always set goals along with a plan to accomplish those goals.

4.    Make fitness and health a way of life. You no longer have gym class.

5.    If you think it’s not right, don’t do it. Listen to the voice in back of your head.

6.    Just because everyone else is doing it, it doesn’t mean it’s right. It doesn’t mean you should do it.

7.    Be creative but only take creative, calculated risks.

8.    Be safe.

9.    Hang out with good people. You know the difference.

10.                       Always be respectful and do not accept anything less in return.

11.                       Be organized.

12.                       Have a personal victory before you leave your dorm in the morning. For instance, make your bed. Even if your day is crappy, your bed is made when you get home.

13.                       Always contribute service to your community.

14.                       Have integrity.

15.                       Be Nice.

16.                       Potential minus commitment equals nothing.

17.                       If you’re not successful, blame yourself.

18.                       No one owes you anything.

19.                       Your parents will always love you.

20.                       Love your parents unconditionally but remember, they do not owe you a college education.

21.                       Always look at other people’s points of view.

22.                       Never sell yourself short. Never let anyone tell you cannot accomplish something.

23.                       If you don’t know what career to pursue, follow your passion. Money will be there.

24.                       Everyone makes mistakes, some you can learn by; others can put you in a bad place permanently.

25.                       There’s a big difference between loving someone and being in love. You can love your pet and your pet will always love you. Lock your dog and your boyfriend or girlfriend in the trunk of a car, come back in an hour. Who’s happy to see you?

26.                       You will have many more failures than successes, or you never tried to accomplish anything.

27.                       When you listen to the soundtrack of your life, what do you hear?

28.                       Responsibility is not a part time job.

29.                       If you want advice, look inside a fortune cookie. If you want my opinion, make it count.

30.                       Become an early morning person instead of a late night person. It makes a huge difference in your success.

31.                       Things don’t always happen to someone else. A lot of times they happen to you.

32.                       Be a dream catcher not a dream chaser. Don’t let anyone steal your dreams.

33.                       Have fun! Love life!- you only get one

34.                       I salute the greatness in you!

Please ask me to explain any of these to you. There are many more to come but I had to get this list out before my daughter went to college.
 

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